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Taking care of people, Let them take care of your customers

Robin’s podcast series is quite famous and I got the collection & used to hear whenever gets time. Today, I heard Robin Sharm’s podcast on the topic “Put people first”.

He says the following are the tactics,

  1. Help people get to their dreams and they are going help you get to your dreams
  2. Say “Thank you” & show gratitude (Robin says this is simple!)
  3. Respect people & Consistently do it
  4. See best in people

Always Robin’s speech is a BIG motivator for me! image

 

If you want to hear this one – link is here: http://www.robinsharma.com/podcasts/PutPeopleFirst.mp3 

If you want to download the entire collection, please visit http://www.robinsharma.com/success_podcast_ic_2.htm

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The other side of Education – Dr.Kishorekumar

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Every Sunday night 10:30pm to 11pm I dedicate the 30 mins in watching Dr.Kishorekumar’s program “The other side of education” in Vijay TV.

This is one of my fav. program and Dr. is simply great, his voice, the tone, the message, the language – I admire him soo much.

I love teaching and teaching always been very very close to my heart, not sure it is due to the reason that my parents are teachers.

I have been watching this program for many many weeks and I really enjoy it, even though the intended audiences are students many times, I used to take away a lot of message for me.

Today the topic was “The chemistry of Parenting”, wow! it could not have been a better timing than this…my daughter is of 7 months and I could able to learn a lot from today’s session…How a father and mother influences the life of the child…what kind of chemistry they pass on to the child, right from discipline to connecting with relatives to knowledge…

I don’t see this program is only for students or only parents, but for everyone. So next time if you get a chance, please watch… this program comes right after “Neeya Naana”…

I salute Dr.Kishorekumar for all his efforts in helping student community! I hope I will get a chance to meet Dr.Kishorekumar one day!!!

Dr. , All the very BEST for all your efforts.

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வாழ்க்கை எதைக் கற்றுக் கொடுக்கிறது!

வாழ்க்கை எதைக் கற்றுக் கொடுக்கிறது, எதை தலைமுறை கற்றுக் கொள்கிறது என்பது பற்றிய ஸ். ராமகிருஷ்ணனின் எழுத்துக்கள் – இந்த வாரம் ஆனந்த விகடனில்,

"வாட் இஸ் இட்" – குறும் படம்…

புல்வெளிக்கு நடுவில் உள்ள பெஞ்சில் ஒரு வயதான அப்பாவும் அவரது மகனும் உட்கார்ந்து  இருக்கிறார்கள். மகன் நியூஸ் பேப்பர் படித்துக் கொண்டிருக்கிறான். அப்பாவுக்கு அறுவது வயது இருக்கலாம். புல்வெளியைப் பார்த்தபடியே இருக்கிறார். அப்போது எங்கிருந்தோ ஒரு குருவி வந்து மரக் கிளையில் உட்காருகிறது. அதை அப்பா கவனமாகப் பார்க்கிறார். குருவி தாவிப் பறக்கிறது. அது என்னவென்று மகனிடம் கேட்கிறார். அவன் குருவி என்று சொல்லிவிட்டு பேப்பர் படிக்கிறான். அவர் மறுபடியும் அதையே பார்த்துக்கொண்டு இருந்து விட்டு, அது என்னவென்று கேட்கிறார்.

அவன் குருவி என்று அழுத்தமாக சொல்கிறான். இப்போது குருவி பறந்து புல்வெளியில் உட்கார்ந்து வாழ் அசைக்கிறது. அப்பா மறுபடியும் அது என்னவென்று கேட்கிறார். மகம் சற்றே எரிச்சலுடன் "குருவிப்பா  ….கு…ரு…வி" என்று ஒவ்வொரு எழுத்தாகச் சொல்கிறான். குருவி ஒரு கிளை நோக்கிப் பறக்கிறது. அப்பா மறுபடி கேட்கிறார். அது என்ன? மகன், "குருவி…குருவி…என்று உங்களுக்கு எத்தனை முறை சொல்றது" என்று கோபத்தில் வெடிக்கிறான்.

அப்பா மௌனமாக வீட்டுக்குள் சென்று உள்ளே இருந்து  தனது பழைய டைரி ஒன்றை எடுத்த அவனிடம் நீட்டி "உரக்கப் படி" என்கிறார். அவன் சத்தமாகப் படிக்கிறான்.

"என் மகனுக்கு மூன்று வயதாகிய பூத்து அவனை பூங்காவுக்கு அழைத்துப் போனேன். அங்கே ஒரு குருவி வந்தது. அது என்னவென்று என் பையன் கேட்டான். குருவி என்று பதில் சொன்னேன். அவன் அதை உற்றுப் பார்த்துவிட்டு மருபாடியும் கேட்டான். நான் அதே உற்சாகத்துடன் குருவி என்றேன். திருப்தி அடையகத என் மகன் இருபத்தி ஓரு முறை அதே கேள்வியை கேட்டுக்கொண்டிருந்தான். ஒவ்வொரு முறையும் சந்தோசமான குரலில் அது குருவி என்று சொல்லி அவனைக் கட்டிக் கொண்டேன்." என்று அந்த டைரியில் உள்ளது.

டைரியை படித்து முடித்த மகன், அப்பா போல ஏன் பொறுமையாகத் தன்னால் பதில் சொல்ல முடியவில்லை என்று உணர்தவன் போல, அப்பாவின் தலையைகே கோதி அவரைக் கட்டிக் கொள்கிறான். அத்துடன் படம் முடிகிறது.

முதியவர்க்களின் கேள்விகள் அறியாமையில் இருந்து வருவது இல்லை, மற்றாக ஆதங்கத்தில் இயலாமையில், பயத்தில் இருந்தே உருவாகிறது என்பதை நாம் ஏன் மறந்துபோனோம் என்பதை இப்படம் நினைவூட்டுகிறது.

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Management during tough times: views from both sides

An excellent article I read – I am just reproducing that here.

All of us are affected in one way or another by the current recession. Business owners and managers are facing very tough choices as they struggle to keep businesses afloat and profitable. Employees face the specter of potential or actual job losses. The resulting fear can immobilize workers and make it difficult for management to make and implement good decisions.

So what’s a manager or an employee to do? Take a step back, try hard to set aside emotion, and view your specific situation dispassionately and analytically. Then develop a plan and follow it. Positive action on a coherent plan has the power to banish fear. To quote Franklin Delano Roosevelt, “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” Fear leads to panic and panic to devastating mistakes. FDR had a point.

Make communications your largest investment: Managers should start by remembering that their employees are their biggest asset. It is expensive to find, hire, train, and keep good employees. Don’t waste this resource. It is critical to make sure your employees are as focused as you are on the goals and work of the business. How can this be accomplished? By communicating regularly and effectively throughout your company. This is an important management task when times are good. During hard times, it is absolutely critical.

Employees need to understand the challenges your business is facing and the plans you have to address them. With knowledge, they will be less fearful and far more likely to buy in and actively support your efforts. No one wants to feel like a tiny, meaningless cog in a machine. People want to feel valued and as if their efforts make a difference. Let them know.

If you need to make changes because of economic realities, be as open as you can. Keep your employees informed and aware. Make yourself available to address their concerns and questions. Don’t hide behind your office door or communicate solely through email. If you are present, available and communicating, you will avoid the speculation and gossip that can grow like a nasty cancer in your organization. Scotch the rumour mill with facts.

Open and consistent communication between management and employees will foster a sense of teamwork and commitment throughout your company. Remember that the atmosphere in a work environment, the corporate culture, emanates from the company leaders. This will happen no matter what. So you may as well take deliberate steps and make your work culture as positive and as beneficial to the business as possible.

We-versus-them takes a timeout: Employees need to look beyond self interest and see the bigger picture. This isn’t a time for a “we-versus-them” mentality, especially in a small company. Don’t contribute to the classic management versus labour war. It’s counterproductive for workers and managers alike. Employees, management and owners are all in the same boat. Employees can help foster good will by doing what they can to keep the boat afloat. How can they do this?

First and foremost, fight the fear and the paralysis that tends to come with it. This isn’t a good time to let your performance slip. Continue to do the best work you can, thereby demonstrating your commitment to success and value to the company. This sounds so basic, but it is hard to do when you fear losing your job.

Be a team player: Continue to be a good team player. Courtesy and a positive attitude go a long way toward making a work environment better for all concerned. Avoid gossip and speculation. It isn’t helpful and makes all concerned look bad. You want to be seen as a positive force to your management, not a source of team discord.

If you feel you are not getting the information you need from management, try asking. Approach your boss with openness and courtesy and ask for status information. You may be surprised by the result.

Be prepared for change: When things change in the marketplace, businesses must shift accordingly in order to survive. Accept that and go with the flow. Clinging to previous business models and old ways of working can burden a company to the point of failure. This is counterproductive for all concerned. If your company fails, you will lose your job for sure. As an example, just consider the state of the auto industry. Don’t be a part of holding your company back.

Open communications and effective teamwork between management and labour won’t save every company and every job, but they will save many. These are times to remember that we are travelling together in that boat, so row together, bail as necessary, stay afloat and reach your destination with flags flying.

MARGARET and DENNIS PURVINE are business consultants based in Edmonds. Reach Margaret at 425.918.1910 or margaret@nextstepsolutions.com and Dennis at 206.972.2877 or dennis@cfoselections.com. Read their business blog at www.businessinwashington.com.

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பொறுமையும், விட்டுக் கொடுத்தலும் அன்பின் அடையாளம்

சமீபத்தில் எங்கள் வீட்டில் ஒரு நிகழ்ச்சிக்காக மண்டபம், சமையல் ஏற்பாடு செய்தோம்.  முதல் நாள் இரவு சப்பாத்தி, தோசை ஏற்பாடு செய்திருந்தோம். தோசை என்பதால் பெரிய அடுப்பின் மேல் தோசை வார்க்க வசதியுடன் இருந்ததை  உபயோகம் செய்தார்கள். ஒரு பிரிவு மக்கள் சாப்பிட்டவுடன் அடுத்து யாரும் வராததால் கல்லை அணைத்து விட்டார்கள் – காஸ் சேமிப்பு. பின்னர் நாங்கள் சாப்பிட சென்றோம். எங்களுடன் சில உறவினர்களும் வந்தார்கள். தோசை கல் மீண்டும் உபயோகிக்க அது சூடாக வேண்டும். இதற்கு கொஞ்சம் கால தாமதம் ஆனது.

அதற்குள் சில உறவினர்கள் பொறுமை இழந்து சமையல்காரரைத் திட்டி, சாப்பிடாமல் எழுந்தார்கள். எங்களுக்கு மிக மன வேதனையைத் தந்தது.

இந்நிகழ்ச்சி என் மனதில் சில கேள்விகளைக் கிளப்பியது.

எனக்குத் தெரிந்து வார இறுதி நாட்களில் எந்த ஹோட்டல் சென்றாலும் உட்கருவதற்கே பத்து முதல் பதினைந்து நிமிடம் காத்திருக்க வேண்டும். உட்கார்ந்தாலும் நம்மிடம் என்ன வேண்டும் என்று கேட்க பத்து நிமிடம் ஆகும். பின்னர் கண்டிப்பாக பத்து முதல் பதினைந்து நிமிடம் நாம் கேட்டது வரும் வரை காத்திருக்க வேண்டும் – நீங்களும் இதை ஒத்துக் கொள்ளுவீர்கள் என் நம்புகிறேன்.

நாம் காசு கொடுத்து சாப்பிட போகும் இடத்தில் இவ்வளவு பொறுமை காக்கும் நம்மால், நம் உறவினர் சுப நிகழ்ச்சியில் பொறுமை காக்காமல் அவர்கள் மனதையும் புண்படுத்தி, இந்த தாமத்தைப் பெரிய விஷயமாக்குகிறோம், ஏன் என்று எனக்குப் புரியவில்லை!

இதே நட்பு வட்டத்தில் நடக்குமானால் "டேய்  பரவயில்லடா…" என்பதுதான் முதலில் வரும். அங்கு "ஈகோ" விற்கு இடமில்லை. விட்டுக்கொடுக்கும் மற்றும் ஒத்துழைக்கும் (உதவி செய்வது இறுதி) மனமே அன்பு கொண்ட நெஞ்சம்.

என்னைப் பொறுத்தவரை இந்த மாதிரி சூழலில் ஒருவரின் கண்ணியம்மிக்க செயல்பாடே அவரின் மீது மதிப்பைக் கூட்டும். மாறாக நடந்தால் அவர்கள் ஆறறிவு படைத்த மனிதர்களா என்ற சந்தேகம் தான் எழும்!

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Are you shouting at others?

‘Why do we shout in anger?’ A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’ 

His disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’

‘But, why do you shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint. ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint. Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’

Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why?  Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’

The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.

‘MORAL’ said the saint: ‘When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return!’

Courtesy: Srinivasan – friend @ CI.COM

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Lack of human respect! India culture?

I was reading a wonderful post by my CEO about “Corporate Governance” and how the heads of Government offices and heads of states should be accountable.

She ends with saying, “As a nation lets make ourselves accountable to our actions everywhere – whether it is house, office or government. If this becomes our way of life, that will be the Golden period of modern India. I pray for this to happen soon.” – True!

Last 1 month, I (my wife and father too) was going thru’ such an amount of bad experiences in 3 different government offices. All they lack was any kind of basic kindness towards fellow human beings.

Starting with BSNL, my application for a simple connection and broadband was pending for more than 1 year and in between they had given WLL after 6 months. Even in the WLL there was a charge of Rs.250/- for Internet which I could never use for a single byte! Till now I am not sure whether that WLL had a connectivity at all. After going to PG (Public Grievances), nothing really moved. Finally I got the connection and BB (after 20days) last week. My father went to Keelkattalai exchange few times during the process and because of my complaints to the PG, the people in the BSNL office didn’t show any respect! (may be my expectation of good behaviour to a 60+ year, 30 year government school head master was wrong!)

Next with EB, for a name transfer. When I bought my new apartment, my builder missed EB connection name transfer for me alone in that 28 houses apartment. You can’t imagine the number of documents you had to submit for this process! After all these docs, EB was asking for a property tax proof. Since this is a new apartment, even the first assessment and payment is yet to happen. So I didn’t have that at all. Even this is applicable to all other 28 apartments also, not sure how they did the name transfer!? May be a wrong question!!! Now after my father’s frequent visits to EB office, finally they have accepted the application forms and I am waiting for the transfer to happen. Hoping sooner !

Now comes the GAS connection. Government relaxed the rule for applying for a new gas connection saying, there is no need for a ration card. An immigrant worker like me from south tamilnadu to chennai, this was a great news. I applied with Indane – Local dealer Prarthana @ moovarasempet immediately. I showed all proof that have asked for and paid Rs. 250 for inspection after I got the letter from them! After 20 days, when me and wife were away, a person from the agency came and checked the house. I was using a gas from my neighbour in the same apartment. Even though the rule may not permit, this is inevitable. What else you do? The person asked us to call and went away. After that, me and my wife went to the gas agency and the response was shocking, they didn’t even provided enough information and said it was cancelled. They didn’t even offered a seat to my wife considering she is 7month pregnant! They had asked us to come back next day. Today, me and my wife again went to the agency and the reply was, the person was on leave and they asked us to come back by Monday. Not sure what will be end!!! When government announce such a scheme considering people, these people are denying the rights of genuine people. I even showed my marriage certificate, so they can clearly understand how genuine our case is. I really get frustrated !

Couple of questions I am searching for answers,

  • In tamil they say, “Nenjil Iram”, “some little kindness” – why it is missing or reducing from people?
  • Respect to fellow human being? any such thing exists?
  • Customer care -?! may be a bad word here!!! too much expectations!?

I had visited few countries – like, Canada, Australia etc. where I could see high respect fellow human beings (at least to the people level). But here in India, we are hating the next person standing if we are in queue, hating the next person while on the road, hating the next person who come to us for help, hating the neighbours & fight with them for petty things!

I am wondering why & how the soo much talked great Tamil culture lost these basics.

I am answering myself saying, “if anything is available in plenty, it lacks value”. May be a basic sales & marketing statement – I am not an MBA! :)

Unfortunately in India, we have plenty of PEOPLE, so the people and their lives are not valued.

Let us show LOVE to the next person we meet !

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